THE BOOMERANG EFFECT OF CONTROLLING OTHERS

Trying to control other other person, is mostly seen at first sight, as someone trying to exercise power over someone else. This individual genuinely think he/she knows what is best for everyone. However, others fell that the controlling person is being abusive and arrogant. 

Trying to be in control of a situation can also be a demonstration of fear to be hurt and disappointed. Someone trying to control someone else to avoid his/her own disappointment. However, it may backfire and his/her disappointment will be even greater.

 
I have observed that most of these individuals in reality have a low self esteem problem.

What do you think?